Nahum 1:3

Mark 14:36

Ordering a Diploma and planning an Open House for your Graduate

Back in January we talked about getting ready for graduation. If your high school student is going to be graduating in May or June of this year and you have not yet ordered their graduation announcements, I would encourage you to pop on over and re-read our post about choosing announcements and how to make your list. If you have made your list and ordered those announcements, now is a great time to make sure you have everyone’s current addresses to mail then to.

Now, while you still have plenty of time to think about it, you should sit down together with your graduate and decide on a style of diploma to order. I know May seems a long ways away, but you’ll feel better if you order that diploma in March or April than if you wait until the first week of May when the weather is nice and the only reason anyone wants to come inside is to grab the meat to grill for dinner. Even though there is a rush order option for diplomas, it is easier to plan ahead and save those extra dollars for chocolate for the party! 

So how do you decide which style of diploma to order? You take a look around the HomeschoolDiploma.com website and look at the different  styles . There are three options to choose from, each with personalization available. You can choose the Standard Diploma, the Personalized Diploma, or the Gilded Diploma. Each of these are excellent choices, and you’ll want to ask your soon-to-be graduate if they have a preference. You can choose either the 8.5 x 11” size or the 6 x 8” size. Our preference is the Personalized Diploma, as it gives you a lot of options to reflect the uniqueness of your homeschool and your graduate’s personality. A little hint: you have more diploma cover options if you go for the 8.5 x 11” size. If you’re really wanting to go for the gold - get the Gilded Diploma and enjoy the 23 karat gold illumination on the seal and school name.

Before we go any further, let’s remind ourselves why our graduates need a diploma. 

Graduation is a milestone in their transition from childhood to adulthood. It is a recognition of the completion of a daunting task - high school. A diploma is also a keepsake. Don’t shortchange your graduate or yourself by ignoring this step towards their independence. While you can choose it all yourself, as the parent-educator, I think selecting your graduate's diploma together is another opportunity to tie heart strings with your child. Value their opinion, work together to create something you will both enjoy having them receive. 

You are going to find a lot of options on the Personalized Diploma, from wording options and multiple type faces to the chance to include a favorite verse or motto. You’re also going to be able to select paper, signature lines, and the graduation date. If your graduate is going to be part of a large group graduation, then you already know those particulars and can input the exact date. But if you are unsure as to the actual date of your actual graduation ceremony / open house, you could choose to put the month and year without the day. We did that with our older daughter since we knew she would graduate in December, but hadn’t yet chosen the day for her open house. Obviously we decided that before we ordered her graduation announcements, but why stress yourself out over the date if you don’t have to? Also, some people prefer the simplicity of the month/year date line.

I like that there are nine options to choose from on the diploma seals with the Personalized Diploma, so however you organized your child’s private education, there is an option for you. There is also one option that simply has the year embossed on the seal. The quality of the printing on these diplomas is superb, and when they arrive there are instructions about how to sign them (with no smudges!)

If you have visited the HomeschoolDiploma.com website before, what used to be called the Exclusive High School Diploma is now named the Personalized Diploma. Way easier to remember in my book, and still just as great of quality. HomeschoolDiploma.com also offers caps and gown for purchase, and if you are ordering a diploma from them, there is a discounted package to get your diploma, cap and gown all at once. :)

Ceremonies and Open Houses

Once you’ve ordered the announcements and the diploma for your graduate, it is time to get serious about what you want their ceremony and/or open house to look like. 

One of our friends’ sons did not want a party at all. His parents knew it was important to commemorate the day so they marked his graduation with a huge family dinner out at his favorite restaurant. A few years ago one of our girls’ good friends graduated and wanted a small ceremony with a larger open house. Her parents ordered announcements that stated her graduation and when the open house would be, then they personally invited each member of their daughter’s inner circle of friends and their family members to attend the ceremony, which they held in the same location as the open house, but an hour and a half before the open house began. 

For our older daughter Emily we were on a tight budget. So we opted for an afternoon open house with finger foods. Her younger sister baked dozens and dozens of cookies the two weeks leading up to the graduation date and we stuck then in the freezer until the night before the party. Emily didn’t want a big ceremony, so we did the presentation of her diploma ahead of time as a family, and then she displayed it on the card and gift table at her open house. We held her open house in the fellowship hall of our church. Plenty of tables and chairs, and bathrooms close by. :)

Our younger daughter is still unsure as to what she wants for her graduation event. Since she will not be graduating until the end of this calendar year we still have plenty of time to talk over her options. I know we will be doing something memorable.

If you are working towards a May or June graduation for this year, may I make a few suggestions? Start early, plan ahead, and stay relaxed as the day approaches. If you are not going to be part of a large group ceremony, then you have the option to set your own graduation ceremony date. If you want the most people possible from your group of family and friends to be able to attend, then think about the schedules of others as wells your own. I would suggest avoiding Memorial Day weekend, unless that is the only time your family has available to make the trip from out of state. You might also want to check the graduation dates of the private and public schools near your home. If they are all graduating the first weekend in June, then know that many of your church and neighborhood friends will be invited to many open houses. Could you hold your ceremony or open house either two weeks before or a week or two after the local school graduation date? There have been many times over the years that we have been unable to attend all of the open houses we were invited to because of the vast number of them all held on the same date. 

In our local community is has become popular for graduating best friends to share an open house. Two graduates, two sets of family, and a lot of friends. None of whom now have to choose attending one event over the other, or leaving early. 

Or of you are wanting to offer a more sit-down and linger style of open house, choose foods that are easy to prepare ahead of time, and that keep well. We have been to many memorable open houses where a little bit of pre-planning allowed the parents to keep enjoying themselves while still serving the needs of the graduate and their guests. Moms - if your best friend offers to help you - say yes! We have dined at a baked potato bar, feasted at a taco bar, and eaten croissant finger foods until the sun sets. If you’re planning a meal, then plan foods that do well in the crockpot (like tacos) or that you can prepare the morning before (like baked potatoes.) Options for sub-style sandwiches are also easy to keep replenished without a lot of work during the party. 

Several years ago there were three best friends we knew who all graduated together. They planned their open houses to be one right after the other on the same day. The parents planned the afternoon events together, and it worked really well. The first open house had finger foods: veggies and cheese and crackers, the second open house had graduation cake, and the third house had dinner. The third house was the family with the biggest backyard and the graduates and their friends all disappeared outside to play volleyball and frisbee while the older friends and family members sat inside and chatted.

Whichever option works best for your family, make sure you make your graduate’s day special! For Emily’s open house we had a table with a blank white picture mat that guests signed instead of a guestbook. We also had a box covered in wrapping paper for cards to be placed in. Next to it we provided index cards and pens and asked those who attended to write a favorite Bible verse or quote for Emily and drop it in the cards box.

Not everyone will be able to attend your graduation event, and that is to be expected. That is just the way life is. However, if you plan ahead, send announcements in a timely manner (about 3-4 weeks before the event) and show your graduate how happy you are with all they have accomplished, there will be many, many opportunities to take pictures of smiling faces at the open house. Make memories that will last a lifetime, and choose a diploma that your graduate will one day take out and show to their own children!

Are you in charge of marshaling the troops for a co-op or private school graduation ceremony? HomeschoolDiploma.com has you covered as well with discounts on group orders, caps and gowns, and a variety of senior year gifts.

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Mark 13:37

Books With Bean ~ Eragon

Title: Eragon

Author: Christopher Paolini 

Published: 2002 (Paolini LLC) 

August 26, 2003 Knopf

Genre: Young Adult, Fantasy

Summary: Eragon is out hunting for food for his family in the mountains near his home, just as he closes in on a herd of deer a loud noise scares them away. He is hesitant at first but then decides to see what caused the disturbance. He finds what appears to be a large blue stone veined with white. His prey gone, Eragon takes the stone hoping that it will be able to buy food for his family for over the winter. Going to the butcher's shop hoping to trade it for meat he gets rejected when he reveals he found it in the mountains which are said to be cursed, something Slone the town butcher believes after his wife died in the mountains. Horst the town blacksmith intervenes for Eragon who thanks him and quickly leaves. Not knowing what to do Eragon goes home to the house he lives in with his uncle Garrow and cousin Roran. Garrow is unsure what to do with it so they save the stone for when the traveling traders come to town hoping to sell it. When the traders arrive however, Murlock the trader of jewelry and other trinkets does not want to buy it because he thinks that he will be unlikely to find a buyer for it. After Eragon and his family have dinner with Horst and his family that night Eragon goes home and leaves the stone on a shelf overnight deciding to wait before doing anything with it. However in the middle of the night the stone starts shaking and wakes Eragon up. He is annoyed with it and about to take it outside and bury it when a crack appears on the surface of the stone and soon Eragon realizes it is not a stone but an egg, and not just any egg either. Out of the egg comes a little dragon that is an amazing shade of blue. Eragon is excited but worried. He loves the stories of the order of dragon riders that used to keep watch over the land but they have been gone for a long time and there are none left in the land save the evil Kind Galbatorix and his dragon. Eragon is nervous and contemplates for a short moment killing the dragon but decides against it as it seems harmless enough. He feeds it some meat and when he touches it he has a painful sensation go up his arm from his hand. Looking at his hand he sees a silver mark appear and he begins to feel the emotions of the dragon in his mind. The next morning he builds it a small hut in the forest by his home and decides to keep the dragon secret for the time being so that his uncle won’t make him get rid of it. After a few days he visits Brom the town storyteller and tries to discreetly ask him questions about dragons. When he gets back home he and the dragon go over the list of dragon names Brom told him and after realizing the dragon is a girl he names he Saphira. During this time Roran leaves to the next village over to take a job at the mill to make some money so he can one day marry Katrina the woman he is in love with. Everything seems well at first but then stage cloaked figures come to the village and start asking questions about the egg. Eragon is unsure what to do but Saphira takes him into the mountains to hide from the figures. He pleads with her to go back because the men might hurt his uncle who is still at home if they find out where they live and  the next day they go back only to find the house burnt down and Garrow at the edge of death. Eragon takes him to the village and the village healer tries to take care of both Garrow and Eragon who was wounded while riding Saphira. Gorrow dies and Eragon is left without knowing what to do next. He decides to go after the figures from the town who he is sure are behind his uncles death and is joined by Brom who it turns out knows more then Eragon ever thought. As they travel the kingdom however Eragon realizes that the world is changing and he is at the middle of the battle for the future of Alagaësia whether he wants to be or not. 

What I liked about it: Eragon is a really cool book, a lot of people have said it is a rip off of other books and movies but I think it is enough it’s own to be worth reading. Eragon (the character) is a little 2-D at first but soon becomes someone who you want to know more about. The other characters are really interesting as well, from grumpy Brom, to the people he meets later in the book like the Elf Arya, the wandering Mutagh, and the self assured Nasuada. The land and the world of Alagaësia are also interesting with fascinating history and plenty of action and plot through all four books. As I learned recently when finishing a series I started some time ago, some series start good and the by the end feel incomplete, The Inheritance cycle was just the opposite. Christopher was young when he first wrote it and it shows a bit in the first book but it is nothing that makes the book unreadable, however by the end of the cycle everything is so awesome that you don’t want it to end!

Language: There is a little bit of language, and while I wouldn't recommend to younger kids  because of this (and  because it is simply too complicated for young children), I think it isn’t too bad. When I first read it several years ago I feel like I noticed it more even though it was very little. But now after having read a lot more young adult books where it seems like random swearing is ok I realized when I reread it recently that is is actually really clean comparatively.

Romance: Eragon begins to have an infatuation with Arya but it never becomes anything serious by the end of the fourth book. Roran is in love with Katrina and she does become with child by Roran in the second book but that scene is not actually in the book and in the third book they get married. 

Violence: There are a lot of battles and fights, the descriptions of what it looks like are in the book and while it paints a clear picture its not overly graphic. 

Magic: Magic is all around in the world of Alagaësia, it is accessible by Elves, Dwarves and humans to varying degrees. Elves have the easiest time controlling it and it is hardest for humans. Eragon starts to be able to control it once he becomes a dragon rider. It seems amazing to Eragon at first but he soon learns it comes with a price. The less you know the easier it is to do something wrong and go too far. Magic takes as much energy from you as it would take you to do that task yourself, and you have to know the ancient language to be able to control it without making big mistakes. 

Recommended Age: Eragon is 15 at the beginning at the beginning of the book and turns 16 during the book. I feel like 14 is probably a good age to start reading these books as the characters and the plot don’t really lean themselves to a younger audience even if you have a really advanced reader who is already reading well beyond their grade level. 

Mark 13:31

Mark 13:26-27